I know I would love to have one, but am I the only one?
In design the site is the market or industry, and what you're trying to do within it.
In design, the people who will be using it are your customers (not you).
For me, nothing is harder or more frustrating than to try to fit into a client's expectations of how the process will go.
True. The first part of the design process is learning about you, your business, your business goals for the project, your audience, what they care about, and what you want them to think, feel or do as a result of the design.